Competition: A Double Edged Blade
Posted by Wyrlo Labels: competition , work , wyrlo
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Competition is everywhere. Whether in sports, entertainment, or work, laging may kasamang competition. Hindi siguro natin maiiwasan ang magkaroon ng ganyan. Lalo na kung ang isa ay hayok sa ganyang scenario. Where that individual acts that there's no tomorrow and everything he [or she] does must be on his [or her] advantage. Dahil siguro parang mamatay na siya kung lilipas ang isang araw na hindi niya maramdaman sa sarili niya na nangunguna siya sa lahat ng bagay.
Is competition good or bad?
Well, I say both. That's the two edge of the blade.
The first edge brings fruitful results. This brings to what you can call a win-win situation. Where each individual gains. Where each party felt good in the end. Neither felt down nor felt minuscule on their abilities or skills. This should be the ideal edge an individual should aim. Unless that individual is too damn proud and despicably self-centered and opted the other side of the blade.
The other edge breeds crap, individualism, egoistic kind of individual. A kind of individual where everyone should listen to what he [or she] says. Where everything that comes out from him [or her] is gold. Where he [or she] feels the need to get to the top in any way possible - even it means to put someone else down to being a piece of crap.
Wala naman talaga masama makipag-compete eh. Just make sure na isinasaalang-alang mo din ang tingin o nararamdaman ng iba. Na alam mong hindi sa lahat ng panahon tama ka. Na hindi lahat ng ginagawa mo ay ang nararapat gawin. Na hindi lang ikaw ang tao sa mundo. Na hindi ka Presidente na lahat ng sasabihin mo ay tama at naayon na dapat sundin ng nakararami. Na may ibang tao din na may opinion. Na hindi sa lahat ng larangan magaling ka. Na hindi lahat ng ideya ay nadiskubre mo at lahat ng ginawa o ginagawa mo ay galing sa sarili mong kukote.
Each and everyone is different. Yes, I know. But does that mean that we have to compete with each and everyone just to have a place in this freakin' society? Do we need to let everyone know na saksakan ka ng galing? Na sukdulan ka ng kaalaman? Is it hard for you not to compete? Is it hard to accept that there are some things that you don't know and you need others to help you? Is it impossible to accept that someone else's idea is much better that what you have taught? Is it that hard to give or share ideas [or what you know] to someone else and don't think of your advantage for a while?
I am not saying I am exempted to everything I am saying here. I am very open din naman kung sasabihin mo sa akin kung isa sa mga iyan ay ginawa o ginagawa ko o kaya naman hindi ko nagagawa. That I am willing to look back my actions and correct it if necessary. Wala naman kasi akong pakialam sa pakikipagpataasan eh. The important thing is, I am doing what I am suppose to do and be good at it with or without the approval of someone else. I am willing and not afraid to share what I know and be blunt to tell you what I don't know.
Why don't we get along and just have the good edge of the blade? Why don't we set aside how we look good in the eyes of someone else and rather concentrate how can we be excellent in what we do. Why don't we compete in a way that we all benefit from it? Besides, we are in the same environment and want the same goal are we not?
There are two kinds of people: Those who do the work and those who take the credit. Try to be in the first group because there is less competition there. -Indira Gandhi
I can see the smoke and i can feel the fire. Lumalagablab! We all need competition din naman but it should be fair, healthy and with good purpose. A good purpose can be - to help each and everyone grow maturely and successful na walang nalalamangan. Ika nga ni p-noy "Wag na natin pahirapan ang isa't isa" .
nyahahah! di ko pa binasa to pero natatawa na ako..